Published: Aug 18, 2010 11:14 PM EDT
Updated: Aug 18, 2010 8:14 PM EDT

LEE COUNTY, Fla. - Steve Olive would not talk to WINK about the 10 page sex manual he sent a student while he was an instructor at the Edison Sailing Center. Olive wrote to the girl, "Ok you've gotten to second base. Are you ready to steal third? That's where things really start to heat up."

As part of the plea agreement, Olive can't be around any minor without another adult around. He also has to complete sex offender treatment and three years probation. The victims family wasn't in court today, but prosecutors say her father wasn't happy with the deal.

WINK uncovered new emails from Olive to the teen where he talks about how he's taking the place of her father. He even signs the letters "Dad." And he gets frustrated when the victim doesn't respond to his racy sexual letter.